Your business & leadership blocks have roots. And they are not where you have been looking.

A free 25-page Christ-centered self-inquiry guide for the faith-led woman who is building something meaningful and keeps getting stopped by the same thing, over and over, in ways no strategy has been able to touch.

I know what it is to function at full capacity while carrying invisible weight.

I know what it is to try every framework, every new beginning, every program and still find yourself ending up in the same place. Wondering if something is wrong with your faith. Wondering if something is wrong with you.

What I eventually understood, not quickly, and not without cost, is that I was trying to solve a story problem with a strategy answer.

The inconsistency in your business is not a discipline problem. The fear of visibility is not a mindset problem. The collapse that comes after a hard season is not a faith problem.

They are patterns. And patterns have roots in stories most of us have never been given space to examine.

When I first entered this kind of story engagement for myself, I was not looking for a room. I was looking for an answer. I wanted the information. The framework. The step-by-step process that would tell me exactly what was wrong and exactly how to fix it.

I was disappointed when I did not find that.

What I found instead was that I had spent years moving forward without ever looking back. I had learned to stay ahead of what was trying to rise. Scrolling. Filling space with noise. Doing the next thing before the last thing could catch up with me.

What I did not know yet was that I was not broken. I was unwitnessed.

This guide is the beginning of that witnessing.

The Story Behind the Pattern is a 25-page Christ-centered self-inquiry guide that walks you through a structured process of honest reflection—from your earliest formative stories through to the patterns showing up in your business and leadership today.

It will not fix this in an afternoon. That is not what it is for.

It is for the woman who is willing to begin looking. Who knows, somewhere underneath all the strategy and the striving, that the real work is in the story. Who wants to bring what she finds to God, not just process it alone.

This is not self-help. It is soul care done in the presence of the One who already knows what you will find.

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WHAT IS INSIDE

A 25-page guided workbook that includes:

Five structured reflection sections that move in order—from your stories of harm and blessing in childhood through to how those patterns are showing up in your work and leadership today
Writing space throughout so you are processing as you go, not just reading and setting it aside
The full nuanced emotions chart and body sensations list, because sometimes we do not know what we are feeling until we have words for it
All 22 relational needs, so you can finally name what was missing and understand why it still matters now
A home practice for bringing what you find to God, because discovery without somewhere to bring it is just information

Your story is the most important business document you have never read. It is time to start.

Paris Byrum Founder, Between Grief & Glory Certified Spiritual Director, Trauma-Informed Mentor

I am a trauma-informed spiritual mentor, a single mother of six, and a woman who spent years staying in motion and calling it healing.

I did not want to look at what was underneath. There were things I had to admit to—harm done to me, and harm I caused others out of coping mechanisms I had never learned to name. I had to look at people I had covered up for, made excuses for, because as a child I did not know how else to survive the fact that they were not there the way they should have been.

That is not easy work. I will not tell you it is.

I still struggle. I still get triggered. But now I have language. Now I have the tools to process it. Now I have safe people in my life who will not turn their faces away.

That is what I want for you.

I built this workbook because I needed it first. Every section, every question, every practice — it came from my own story before it ever came from my training.

You are not downloading a resource. You are being handed something I sat with myself, in the places I had been avoiding for years.

You were not broken. You were unwitnessed.

And this is where that begins to change.

I am pulling up a chair alongside you.

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My coach said it to me once in a way I have never forgotten.

"It is easier to stay in a familiar hell than to step into an unfamiliar heaven."

I did not want to hear that. Because I had spent years believing that the reason I kept hitting the same wall was that I had not found the right system yet. The right framework. The right coach. The right morning routine. I kept looking for the thing that would finally make the pattern stop.

What I did not want to look at was my story.